The jeans have a hole in the knee from Jack playing cars on the floor. I am inordinately proud of that hole. So perfectly little-kid for a child who had to be taught how to crawl. It makes me smile. … because of their stims, in which case I see why they might want to help their kid replace a noticable stim with a discrete one. However, a lot of professionals seem to think that stimming is undesirable simply because it’s not ‘normal’. That seems a weird attide to me. … …

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Mama Be Good: The S- Word